Recently I have faced the many dilemmas of adulthood. From what I’ve learned so far, what many like to call “adulting,” is no easy feat. It’s crazy to me that all you learn in high school and college is rarely applicable to real life, especially adulthood. School teaches you to be book smart, but it’s up to your parents and yourself to teach you how to be street smart. Things like changing your car oil, cleaning the oven (it cleans itself so it should be easy right?), registering your expired car, working 8-5, filing for tax refunds, switching all your banking information from one account to the other in order to pay bills – there aren’t classes for these, only life lessons. My mother and I recently had a phone call about my troubles with adulting. She jokingly said to me, “You know what Taylor? Throughout all of life’s bullshit I have just learned to smile and be happy, because if I’m not smiling and being happy then I’m going to cry.”
I could not agree more! As a 23-year-old I have not even come close to the adulting my 50-something-year-old mother has, especially not with having no children. I decided that I won’t let life’s bullshit take control of my happiness. I’m going to start to “think pink.” Thinking pink is something I thought of, which is roughly based on the song La Vie En Rose by Edith Piaf. In the song, the French musician sings about the literal translation, life in pink, which in colloquial terms means living life in love. It’s seeing life through pink tinted lenses. When the troubles of adulthood are clouding your feelings, just remember to think pink and stay positive! Every day is a learning process. Every lesson and challenge is only there to make you push your limits to learn and grow from them. Thinking pink will not only calm you down from stressful situations, but it will also remind you to just be happy – to enjoy the little things life has to offer!
In this photo shoot I am totally channeling the vision of thinking pink! Nothing brightens up my day like the view of a fresh bouquet of flowers. With my pretty tulips tucked into my favorite Dagne Dover tote, I spent my day smiling and reminding myself that although I am struggling somedays, every fight is worth the victory. This adorable little dress from Fabulous Finds, which reminds me of a vintage Chanel dress, is perfect to think pink in! It is made from tweed and has little silver threading details. The hemline is really unique and has a tennis-style skirt at the bottom. I paired this dress with my new flats from Asos that are currently on sale for $25. My friend Sam, a fellow Style Collective girl, owns the boutique Fabulous Finds. It is located in Fayetteville, NC and it carries all sorts of colorful products such as Lilly Pulitzer, Kendra Scott and GiGi New York. You can shop online at fabfindsboutique.com. Definitely check the boutique out and help support a local, female-entrepreneur business! I hope I have inspired you all to start thinking pink and staying positive throughout all of life’s hardships. We can get through it, especially if we think pink <3
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March 1, 2016You always make me happy <3 … love you in pink !
tayloraube
March 1, 2016Thank you <3 Pink is my favorite!
diana
March 1, 2016These photos are so beautiful. Lovely, simple and o so pink. Your hair is done perfectly to go with the outfit. The soft pink color is so pretty on you. And don’t worry too much about the adult things, you have the rest of your life to get the hang of it.
tayloraube
March 1, 2016Thanks Diana! Life doesn’t come with an instruction manual so I’m still figuring things out – be it a bump in the road or smooth sailing!
Annie
March 1, 2016Aw Taylor, this post was so beautiful. I was listening to a podcast recently with Chris Sacca and something he said stuck with me (and is sort of similar is message). He said that his buddies asked him last minute to participate in a triathlon – he hadn’t trained at all – but said yes. About half way through the event, he was dying and miserable, but he thought to himself “Tonight I will be in my bed.” And sure enough, he got through it and was in his bed that night. I’ve kept that story in my mind so that whenever I am going through something unpleasant, I just think “Tonight I will be in my bed.” – xo Annie
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tayloraube
March 1, 2016Annie, you are such an inspiration to me so your comment means so much <3 I love that little tidbit that Sacca said. It grounds you and reminds you to appreciate the little things, like falling into bed after a long day. It's so sweet to know such a simple concept can help you defeat your major challenges of the day. I always try to remind myself of the little things because I tend to get lost in the big picture. I always stop myself and try to focus on the good, like the view of beautiful flowers, kisses from my puppy or the pretty clouds in the sky.
Emily
March 1, 2016Wow I love this outfit, especially the pink dress. You definitely channeled in the energy of pink!! Flowers cheer me up too, excited for Spring Hope you’re having a great Monday!
xoxo Emily
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tayloraube
March 1, 2016I’m so excited for spring!! Happy March 1st
Gail
March 1, 2016Such a lovely post. We definitely need to keep smiling even when we’re faced with life’s toughest decisions. You look beautiful- love the pink. Xoxo
tayloraube
March 1, 2016Thank you Gail! I hope you remember to think pink whenever you’re feeling down!
Samantha
March 1, 2016Gorgeous – I love this dress on you, it looks amazing! I also love how you styled it with the accessories! xoxo Samantha
tayloraube
March 1, 2016Thank you Sam!
danielle
March 1, 2016i love the idea of living that way, i just turned 26 and i’m nowhere near ready to act like an adult. loving these photos as well, so cute!
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tayloraube
March 2, 2016Sometimes I wish I could just throw all of my bills and responsibility in a bone fire! One day I will and that’s called retirement, hahaha!
Mayra
March 2, 2016I love this idea of Think Pink. I have been practicing this for a while now but didn’t have a name for it! Lovely post my dear
tayloraube
March 2, 2016It was a “light bulb” moment when I thought of the term. It’s cute, catchy and easy to remember! Hope you’re having a wonderful week!
Natalia
March 2, 2016Great post Taylor!! Your mom’s advice reminds me of what my mom always tells me…you can’t control the negative things that come your way, only the way you react to them so choose to be happy and positive! Love your dress by the way
tayloraube
March 2, 2016Moms are seriously the best. I just wanted to remind everyone to be happy and stay positive and I’m glad everyone is taking something away from this post! Thanks for your sweet comment!
Kait Elizabeth
March 2, 2016No amount of schooling can ever prepare you for adulting! I love your new mantra love, and how gorgeous you look in pink. Hugs, Kait http://www.makeminemaroon.com
tayloraube
March 2, 2016Thanks Kait. I’d say as of late I’ve gone a little pink crazy in my outfits, haha! I don’t know why but I’m so drawn to this color
Maggie
March 2, 2016Love this look and love this post!! Totally agree!
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toby
March 2, 2016love love love! GREAT POST!
Ruthie
March 2, 2016Oh wow, this has to be one of my favorite posts of yours. I am 32 this year and I still hate adulting. I would like to join you in thinking pink!! You look lovely and wow, you are just a model. I adore you! xo
tayloraube
March 3, 2016Thanks Ruthie, I always value your opinion and wisdom so your comment means a lot to me. Thank you!
Cassidy
March 3, 2016Taylor these are literally such good pictures you get better and better everyday along with your blog! I can’t believe how well you’re doing. This dress too is by far one of my favorite ones you’ve worn! The accesories are a staple peice to it!!!
Yulia
March 3, 2016I really enjoyed reading this post, Taylor:) I am a bit older than you, but I had the same feeling about adulthood just a few days ago. I wish we studied how to be good in real lives rather than some mathematical formulas.
I am absolutely in love with your “think pink” outfit and approach to life:) The dress looks amazing on you, and I liked how you completed the look with a beautiful bouquet. Have an amazing day and thanks for sharing!
Yuliannova
tayloraube
March 3, 2016Thank you Yulia! I’m glad you enjoyed the post and thank you for your feedback! Life loves to throw crazy situations and hardships at you, so it’s up to you to think pink and overcome them
Lauren
March 3, 2016What a cute dress – and that pink color looks so pretty on you!
Krista Williams
March 3, 2016I think about that all the time! That there is so much adulthood that is not taught when we grow up LOL. Taxes? WHAT?
I love the flowers and color scheme here, the brick and cream looks so gorgeous with the pink and the flowers!
Gorgeous! Think pink forever hehe
xooxox
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tayloraube
March 3, 2016Speaking of taxes, I still have to do mine… This weekend I promise!!! Thank you so much for your lovely comment <3
Gemma
March 3, 2016Such a beautiful outfit. I love how you accessorised with tulips, super pretty! Gemma x
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Rach
March 3, 2016I am a huge fan of the color pink and this dress has the perfect shade of pink! It is so cute,girly, and Spring ready!
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Kavya
March 3, 2016That was a great post, Taylor! Love your “think pink” concept. I love all things pink. Pink makes me really happy. You look so so classy in this cute pink dress. Such a gorgeous piece on you. You’re just beautiful and love all your gorgeous pictures as always! Have a great day, love!
tayloraube
March 3, 2016Thank you Kavya! I love your blog so much. I hope you’re thinking pink today
Jennifer
March 3, 2016I love so much pink colour and this outfit is so glam and chic !!
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Faye
March 3, 2016Lovely post, dear! X
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samantha
March 3, 2016I love it Taylor!! You look beautiful, and I love the message!! I am definitely “thinking pink”!! thanks for your support! xoxo
sam
LindaLibraLoca
March 4, 2016I guess thinking pink is a great way to deal with adulting, especially when there are kids involved. Otherwise everything gets grey sooner or later.
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Diana
March 4, 2016Great post! I’m not a pink addict, because this colour doesn’t suit me. But it does on you! xx
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Jenna at Boston Chic Party
March 6, 2016I LOVE this outfit! Comparing a dress to a vintage Chanel is probably the best possible comparison You look so stunning, Taylor! I think this would be a fabulous Easter outfit
xoxo, Jenna
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Jen
March 7, 2016I absolutely loved this post! “Think Pink” totally embodies who you are and it’s amazing to see everyday! Gorgeous! xoxo
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tayloraube
March 8, 2016Thanks Jen! Love ya